
"Women are like apples on the tree. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Most of the men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they sometimes take the apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. The apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right person to come along, the one who is brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree".
2009-04-10
Alhamdulillah, segala puji bagi Allah yang memberikan kemenangan kepada PAS di Parlimen Bukit Gantang dan PKR di Dun Bukit Selambau. Nyatanya itu adalah kemenangan Pakatan Rakyat yang membawa suara rakyat. Allahuakbar!!!
2009-04-09
Tangisan Seorang Lelaki di Bumi Debu Mesir
``Hampir ku tangisinya ya Allah. Tidak! Sekali-kali tidak, aku tidak akan benarkan tangisan ini ditumpahkan lagi. Cukuplah ia pernah berderai dahulu,tidak lagi sekarang ,mata ini juga perlukan kerehatan. Benar, sukar sekali mata seorang lelaki untuk menangisi sesuatu ya Rahman. Apatah untuk meratapi sesuatu dihadapan manusia .Kerana diri ini tetap seorang lelaki ,yang punyai egonya sendiri.’’
``Namun wahai Tuhanku,aku tidak mampu mengalah dari pinta hati ini ya Allah. Hanya engkau dan aku yang mengetahui kesakitan ,jerit tawa,senyumnya,dukanya dan pilunya Ya Allah. Oleh kerana engkau sahaja yang membelai hati ini wahai Pemilik hati, izinkan aku adukan padamu kesakitan hati ini.’’
Tuhan,aku kehilangan…
Diari hambamu..--/--/---,----------
Saat kau disisi,aku tersenyum ,malah tiada senyuman semanis ini dpt aku ukirkan selain diwaktu disisimu,walau ia bukanlah terukir dibibir ini ,namun ku merasai kemanisannya. Sungguh! Di dasar hati yang tidak pernah diketahui oleh sesiapa melainkan aku dan Dia. Tika itu kau membelai-belai jiwa ini ,bahkan kau genggam hati ini agar ia tidak berbolak balik lagi. Aku merasai kenikmatanya. Dunia ini tiada apa bagiku bila kau disisi. Hari-hari ku penuh dengan kebahagian walaupun tika itu aku ditekan ,aku dicerca dan aku dihina. Tapi kau pun tahu,selagi kau disisi,semua itu tidak bererti bagiku..Tapi,itu dulu..
Ingatkah kau di malam itu? Aku termenung,lembaran langsir ku buka dan ku tatapi wajah bulan. Ku tatapi wajah bintang.
‘Hei bulan..tidakkah kau pernah menangis? Tidakkah kau pernah bersedih? Tidakkah pernah berasa sengsara menanggung derita?
‘Hei bintang..kan best kalau aku jadi kau. Tiada duka,tiada sensara ..Pasti hidup kau gembira kan?..’
Namun bulan dan bintang membisu..aku pun turut membisu dan kau juga terus membisu waktu itu sambil memandangku penuh sayu..malangnya,kelibat dirimu kabur dimataku detik itu..
Untukmu,
Tahukah engkau, aku merindukan sesuatu.Aku terasa kekosongan dalam diriku.Setiap langkahku menuju ke university longlai, renungan ku di papan putih semuanya pura-pura, sedangkan fikiranku entah melayang ke mana. Aku memujuk jiwaku agar memberikan haknya kepada seluruh pancainderaku. Namun ku tidak mampu. Aku rindu..Aku rindukan dirimu..Rindukan belaian mu..
Memang benar,aku akui ini semua salahku,semua ini berpunca dari diriku yang hina ini. Aku tidak pernah memberikan yang terbaik untukmu. Dulu aku bersungguh-sungguh ingin mendapatkan mu. Aku tahu sahabat-sahabat ku juga berusaha untuk mendapatkan dirimu.Untuk dirimu yang berharga,ku korbankan segala galanya. Harta,tenaga dan jiwa,semua adalah untukmu..kerana aku sgt sayangkanmu..
Aku juga teringat akan peristiwa-peristiwa kita dahulu..
Merisik
Waktu itu kusingkapi tirai hidupmu,aku ingin mengenali siapakah dirimu sebenarnya,tempat tinggalmu,keluargamu,teman-temanmu..Aku bertanyakan pada sahabat-sahabatku yang pernah mengenalimu.Mereka juga ingin mengenalimu dirimu. Peliknya,aku gembira kerana mereka juga seperti aku. Benarlah,dirimu umpama mutiara yang tersimpan didasar lautan. Perlu diselam ,perlu tenggelam. Siapa yang lebih mendambakanmu,pasti berusaha kearah itu. Aku ingin menjadi salah seorang darinya.
Meminang
Setelah itu, aku yakin…Aku pasti..kau tercipta untukku. Alhamdulillah,pinanganku diterima olehmu. Aku mulai merasai kebahagiannya. Tidak sabar ingin menjadikan dirimu teman hidupku. Teman yang akan memegang hati kecilku tika ku jatuh,teman yang akan mengingatkan ku pada bila saat aku perlukanmu.
itu semua dulu..
Tapi bila berlalunya waktu, dalam tidak ku sedari aku tidak lagi menyayangimu, tidak lagi membelaimu, tidak lagi bertanyakan khabarmu..Bahkan tidak lagi memberikan semangat dan kekuatan padamu seperti dulu di waktu kau menerima pinanganku. Hajatku untuk menjadikan kau teman hidupku pudar begitu sahaja. Segala persiapan dan perancangan hanya tinggal sebuah dongengan. Malah,hinanya diri ini, aku tidak mendengar setiap teguranmu, bahkan kadang-kadang aku memarahi dirimu yang suci itu. Sehingga aku merasakan kau tidak lagi perlu disisiku. Kau hanyalah burung yang singgah dikamar hatiku tika musimnya. Bila tiba waktunya, aku perlukanmu,tapi bila musimnya berlalu,engkau ku halau dari menganggu di diari hidupku. Entah berapa kali agaknya jiwamu dirobek-robek oleh kelakuan sang binatang sepertiku. Seringkali juga aku rasai yang kau ingin lagi menyentuh hati ini,kau ingin menyintai hati ini. Tapi,seringkali juga aku menjadi api,menjauhi dan terus menjauhi..
Kini,kau pergi..
‘IMAN,berilah aku sekali lagi peluang melamarmu,
Aku perlukanmu ,aku rindukanmu.
Sudikah kau menjadi teman hidupku?
Untuk selama-lamanya?’
Mehnah...Cabaran...Trribulasi...
Firman Allah SWT:
“Dan Kami pasti akan menguji kamu dengan sedikit ketakutan, kelaparan serta kekurangan harta serta jiwa dan hasil tanaman. Lantas berikanlah khabar gembira kepada orang-orang yang sabar.” (Al-Baraqah 2 : 155)
FirmanNya lagi :
“Dan seandainya matlamat (kamu) itu dekat dan perjalanan (yang mesti ditempuh) itu pendek, nescaya mereka akan mengikut kamu. Akan tetapi ia menjadi sesuatu yang jauh bagi mereka disebabkan oleh kepayahan (yang ada)”. (At-Taubah 9 : 42)
Is Your Home an Islamic Home?
"And Allah has made for you in your homes a place of rest..."[An-Nahl:80]
This may seem like an unusual question and your automatic response may be "Why, of course my home is an Islamic Home!! My family is Muslim and that makes our home a Muslim one!!"
Go through this short checklist to determine if your response should really be in the affirmative.
I Have Chosen a Good Spouse
There are several ahadeeth that highlight the importance of choosing a righteous and pious spouse. The wisdom of this is obvious: a pious spouse is more likely to bring happiness and contentment to the other spouse and the couple together will be more able to build a righteous family and home life. This is the foundation of the home.
I Help Guide My Spouse
This begins with each spouse fulfilling the duties and responsibilities of their roles and treating each other with kindness and compassion. It then goes beyond this to include guidance in other spiritual matters such as striving to strengthen imaan; paying attention to worship and correcting it when needed; encouraging the reading of Qur'an, praying at night, giving charity, and reading books on Islam; helping to choose pious friends; enjoining goodness and forbidding evil. Emaan is something that may increase or decrease so it is necessary to continually focus on increasing our own and that of our spouse.
Our Home is a Place for Remembrance of Allah
Remembrance can be in many forms: with the heart, with the tongue, through prayer, recitation of Qur'an, memorizing adhkaar and using them, discussing Islamic issues, or reading Islamic material. These are things that should occur on a consistent basis so that the angels will come to the home and bring Allah's blessings. The Prophet, sallallahu alayhe wasallam, said: "The example of a home in which Allah is remembered and the example of a home in which Allah is not remembered, is like comparing the living and the dead." (Muslim).
Our Home is a Place of Worship
This means that salah is established within the home at its required time and that members of the family pray in congregation when several are present. The family may also designate a specific area for prayer and maintain its uniqueness and cleanliness. For women, it is better to pray each prayer within the home. For men, it is recommended to pray voluntary prayers at home after having prayed obligatory prayers in the masjid. The Prophet, sallallahu alayhe wasallam, said: "The voluntary prayer in the home is better than the voluntary prayer with the people. It is like the obligatory prayer of the man in congregation being better than praying the obligatory by himself." (Sahih al-Jaami). This is to ensure that homes are made places of worship just as the masajids.
We Regularly read Surat Al-Baqarah and Ayatul Kursi to Keep Satan Away
The Messenger of Allah, sallallahu alayhe wasallam, said: "Recite Surat Al-Baqarah in your houses, for the Satan does not enter a house in which Surat Al-Baqarah is recited." (Sahih al-Jaami). He also said: "When you go to your bed, recite Ayatul Kursi: 'Allah! There is no god but Him, the Ever-Living, the One Who Sustains and Protects all that exists', to the end, for then there will remain over you a guardian from Allah, and Satan will not come near you until morning." (Bukhari).
Teaching and Learning are Ongoing Activities in Our Home
This is primarily the responsibility of the head of die household who must ensure that he is guiding his family to the correct path, enjoining them to do good, and forbidding them from evil. Attaining knowledge is incumbent upon all members of the family and is the basis upon which Emaan will flourish, A study circle should be established in the home that covers the various areas in Islam and from which all family members will benefit. Children should especially be encouraged to participate since this will establish a pattern for them that will be carried throughout their lifetimes.
We Have an Islamic Library in Our Home
This may include such things as books, cassette tapes, and CDs. It is important to choose accurate and reliable material that will benefit the members of the family. There should be a variety of materials to cover all age levels and language needs of those in the home. Arabic material is definitely a must since everyone in the family should either know or be learning to read the language of the Qur'an. Books should cover a variety of topics, be properly organized, and be easily accessible. Audiotapes and CDs may include Qur'an recitation, lectures, khutbahs, tapes for children containing supplications, reminders of Islamic manners, and nasheeds (religious songs with no musical instruments). Family members should encourage one another to use these materials on a regular basis, and should be shared with other Muslim families who may be in need of them.
We Try to Have Morals and Manners Like Prophet Muhammad
The Prophet, sallallahu alayhe wa sallam, said; "When Allah wills some good towards the people of a household. He introduces kindness among them." (Ahmad, Sahih al-Jaami). He also said: "Allah loves kindness and rewards it in such a way the He docs not reward for harshness or for anything else." (Muslim). There are many examples of the Prophet's kindness and good treatment toward his family that we should try to emulate. He was affectionate and playful with his wives and children and would help with household chores to case the burden for his wives. Following his example will bring tranquility to the home and help to truly make it an abode of rest.
We Know the Islamic Rulings That Pertain to Houses
Such as guarding the secrets of the home, seeking permission to enter, not looking into other people's homes, not allowing children to enter the parent's bedroom during certain times of the day, and not staying alone overnight. This last one is interesting to consider since some husbands travel for their business or work. The Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wasallam, actually discouraged this. Ibn Umar reported that the Prophet forbade being alone and said that a man should not stay overnight alone or travel alone (Ahmad). Not only will he be alone, but his wife and children are likely to be left alone in the home without any protection or companionship.
We Invite Righteous and Knowledgeable People to Our Home
"My Lord! Forgive me, and my parents, and him who enters my home as a believer, and all the believing men and women." [71:28]. Righteous people who enter your home will bring many benefits due to their presence and conversations with them. They are more likely to discuss useful topics and may be excellent sources of information and knowledge. We should always make du'aa that Allah will bless us with righteous friends since they can have such positive effects on us. The Prophet, sallallahu alayhe wasallam, said: "Keep company with a believer only, and let your food be eaten only by the righteous." (Abu Dawud, Tirmithi).
There are No Evils Within Our Home
Television (except possibly for educational programs) and unlawful music are not allowed in the house; pictures on the wall do not contain animate beings; there are no statues or anything that resembles statues; dogs are not present in the house; smoking is not allowed; decorations are kept simple to avoid excessiveness; the telephone is used for beneficial purposes and not harmful ones (such as gossiping or backbiting); when people come to visit, the men and women sit separately. The effects of these evils on the sanctity of the home should be obvious. For example, the Prophet, sallallahu alayhe wa sallam, said: "Angels do not enter a house which has either a dog or a picture in it." (Bukhari).
The Physical Aspects of the Home are Conducive to Fulfilling Religious Obligations
It is best for the home to be close to a mosque so that it will be easier for men to attend the prayers in congregation and for all family members to visit the mosque for lectures, study groups, and social gatherings. It is also advisable to find an area where other Muslims live to obtain the benefits of community. One should definitely be careful about close neighbors and avoid those who are obviously immoral. When choosing a house, consideration should be made regarding the availability of separate sitting areas for men and women. The house should be spacious and fulfil safety and health requirements.
Al JUMUAH VOL 11 ISSUE 8
2009-04-05
Kobarkan Ruh Jihad Muslimat!!
Sejarah telah membuktikan bahawa peranan muslimat tidak kurang pentingnya dlm melangkah menuju ke medan jihad yang dipenuhi dgn pelbagai mehnah & tribulasi.Walaupun dilihat sebagai kaum yg lemah lembut serta penuh dgn adab kesopanan,muslimat yg mempunyai jiwa yg jitu berteraskan ruh Tauhid tidak akan sekali-kali lemah & longlai bahkan sentiasa gagah memperkasakan diri utk memenuhi tuntutan Sang Ilahi.
Zainab Al-Ghazali Al-Jubaili adalah contoh seorang aktivis Islam yg sanggup berkorban apa sahaja demi mempertahankan kebenaran yg beliau yakini.Beliau merupakan ketua Jama'ah Muslimat yg menjadi sayap kepada Ikhwan Muslimin di Mesir.
Pada era pemerintahan Presiden Jamal Abdul Nasser,puluhan ribu, malah ratusan ribu anggota Ikhwan Muslimin dipenjara dan diseksa.Zainab Al-Ghazali dgn sepenuh kemampuan yg dimilikinya berusaha sedaya upaya meringankan bebanan keluarga mereka yg dipenjarakan. Pelbagai bantuan kebendaan & rohani dihulurkan....Rancangan utk membunuhnya telah dilakukan.Akhirnya beliau ditangkap dan dipenjarakan dan bermulalah siri penyeksaan ke atasnya.Tetapi Allah telah menyelamatkan beliau.Ketika menghadapi saat-saat penyeksaan di dlm penjara,pemerintah telah mengarah agar beliau diseksa dgn penyeksaan yg berat.namun beliau tabah menghadapinya dgn penuh yakin akan janji Allah: "Cukuplah Allah menjadi penolong kami dan Allah adalah sebaik-baik pelindung.."
Begitulah kecekalan seorang mujahidah pilihan yg mempunyai semangat juang yg berkobar-kobar hanya semata-mata mencari redha Allah S.W.T.Zainab Al-Ghazali sentiasa menjadi teladan (qudwah) kepada saff pejuang muslimat yg thabat utk menegakkan kebenaran sehingga tibanya yaumul qiyamah....
2009-03-30
Lambaian Indah Nur AlQuran...
Alhamdulilah,kesempatan umur yg masih diberikan oleh Allah ini membolehkan aku meneruskan lagi coretan di wadah ilmu ini.Telah sekian lama laman ini tidak dihiasi dgn kalam-kalam indah,butir-butir madah yg bisa membuatkan hati semakin mendekati & mengagumi kebesaran Allah.Ya Allah.,kuberdoa padaMu agar dipanjangkan lagi usiaku utk aku meneruskan jalan dakwahMu ini.
Ku panjatkan setinggi-tinggi kesyukuran kpd Allah Taala,penguasa sekalian alam di atas rezeki yg telah diberikan.Buat pengetahuan semua,dgn izin Allah Taala,aku telah diterima utk menjalani sesi pemilihan ke Darul Quran yg akan diadakan pd 2hb April 2009.Impian yg ku anggap sekadar percubaan telah memberi sebuah sinar harapan utkku terus menanam erat bait-bait kalamullah di dalam hati ini utk diamalkan.Tetapi,andai impian ini tidak menjadi kenyataan,ku yakin bahawa Allah adalah sebaik-baik perancang.Masih ada lagi peluang lain yg menantiku di masa hadapan..Walau apapun,doa & ikhtiar terus ku panjatkan mengiringi impian indah ini.
Ku harus sedar..
Sekali ku telah bertapak ke alam ini,ku perlu memikul satu amanah yg sangat besar iaitu menjunjung tinggi & memartabatkan isi kandungan AlQuran di setiap pelusuk dunia.Hafalan bukanlah dijadikan sebagai satu kebanggaan.Bukanlah menunjukkan ketinggian taraf iman & bukan juga menjadi tiket utk mencerahkan peluang pekerjaan.Tetapi setiap kalam Allah yg dilafazkan merupakan satu amanah yg tersandar di atas bahu insan hina ini.Setiap patah bacaan yg dipertuturkan akan dipersoalkan oleh Allah di hari pembalasan kelak.
" Ya Allah,hiasilah diriku dgn keindahan AlQuran.Muliakan aku dgn kemuliaan AlQuran.Serikan aku dgn ketinggian martabat AlQuran.Pakaikan aku dgn pakaian permata AlQuran.Masukkan aku ke dlm syurgaMu dgn syafaat AlQuran.selamatkan aku drpd segala bencana dunia & azab akhirat dgn berkat kehormatan AlQuran...."
Ku pinta doa kalian.....
